First allow me to give you some brief background. I have been a gamer for longer than I’d like to admit. Let just say that I played Atari when it first came out, lol. I didn’t connect with any online communities until the Playstation 3 came along. I have also played on PC primarily once I was old enough and employed enough to buy my first gaming rig.

I have participated in some MMO games, I have moderated forums and I had my own forum and website at one time.

I got away from all that because I found that forums, message boards, social media groups etcetera.. can be extremely toxic and full of malevolent people.

I have a thick skin but I’m also a human with a heart. It can be difficult at times to shake off some of the things people do and say. So, I unplugged and went back to hermit mode game play.

Then one day I saw an advertisement for a game in development – No Man’s Sky. I followed the title for approximately 2 years before it released. I liked the sound of it. They originally designed it to have a very minimalistic multi player feature. You could possibly run into other players but we couldn’t interact. Well, that was just my speed.

Of course multiplayer has drastically evolved since then and that’s awesome for those who enjoy the full experience.

I still choose to keep “Public Multi player” turned off but I’m thrilled I am able to invite trusted friends to explore with me.

2016- No Man’s Sky hits the shelves. I bought two copies, PC & Playstation.

People had their tantrums and also legitimate complaints. I continued to play as I was 80% certain that the developers would restructure the game to accommodate the player base more. I am glad that came to fruition.

Recently, I decided to give some NMS Reddit communities a try. I have interacted with players via YouTube for quite a while and found the NMS players to be very helpful, welcoming and over all a friendly bunch.

I have not been disappointed with my Reddit NMS experience thus far. Yes, there’s plenty of dirt bags but that’s par for the course with any public community but overall, The No Man’s Sky Community as I said already, has proven to be primarily full of awesome, like minded people who have a passion to share their knowledge, creations and anything else the love about the game. I didn’t think an online community of this quality existed anywhere.

I’m very pleased I was proven wrong by many of you. Thank you to the good people for being you and forgive me at times for being me. Outside of the online environment I’m actually an easy going, friendly person. Online….well, sometimes my battle scars show. I treat good people very well. I treat dirt bags like dirt bags. I think there are times I should probably keep my comments to myself when responding to hecklers/trolls but it’s in my DNA to stand up for myself, my loved ones and friends.

It’s a positive attribute that certainly has some negative aspects to it as well. The trick is, I need to find a balance regarding that.

Anyway, enough said. Thanks again NMS travelers. ❤️ P. Wyatt

I usually play more single player games so when I saw starfield is coming out in 3 months I got in a space game mood and decided to try out no man’s sky and the reason I said surprisingly wholesome is because usually the people who play survival games aren’t the friendliest bunch you know what I mean games like dayz or rust you try to meet up with people and they either kill you and shout slurs or grief you or back stab you along the way so anyway while doing the tutorial quests I got into the anomaly for the first time and checked out the place for a bit and this random dude invited me into his group I joined them I told them I was new and they immediately helped me out we did a bunch of stuff together one of them gave me a bunch of shit to sell which I used to buy a new ship and he even showed me how to build a base and even when I asked how to get more blueprints they helped and showed me how to find those buried tech for the salvaged data but anyways my point is props to the NMS community for being so helpful to new players can’t wait to grind further 🔥🔥🔥